Simply-Simple

Mengatasi ke letihan

2009-12-02T15:04:00.000+08:00

Bagi mengatasi kepenatan melaksanakan tugas-tugas seharian sama ada di
rumah mahupun di tempat kerja, sudah semestinya petua yang diajar oleh
Rasulullah s.a.w. kepada puteri kesayangannya Saidatina Fatimah sebagai
penawarnya dijadikan amalan seharian.

Suatu hari Saidatina Fatimah mengadu kepada suaminya Saidina Ali bin
Abu Talib tentang kesakitan pada tangannya kerana keletihan
menggiling gandum untuk membuat roti. Saidina Ali berkata :
"Bapa kamu telah datang membawa balik tawanan perang. Berjumpalah dia
dan mintalah seorang khadam untuk membantu mu."

Saidatina Fatimah pergi bertemu bapanya dan menyatakan hasrat untuk
mendapatkan seorang khadam bagi membantu tugas hariannya di rumah.
Bagaimanapun Rasulullah s.a.w. tidak mampu memenuhi permintaan anak
kesayangannya itu. Lalu Baginda s.a.w. pergi menemui puterinya serta
menantu itu. Baginda s.a.w. berkata:
"Apa kamu berdua mahu aku ajarkan perkara yang lebih baik daripada apa
yang kamu minta daripadaku? Apabila kamu berdua berbaring untuk tidur,
bertasbihlah (Subhanallah) 33 kali, bertahmid (Alhamdulillah) 33 kali
dan bertakbir (Allahuakbar) 33 kali. Ia adalah lebih baik untuk kamu
berdua daripada seorang khadam."

Inilah penawar ringkas yang Nabi s.a.w. ajarkan kepada anak dan
menantunya bagi meringankan keletihan dan kesusahan hidup mereka
berdua.
Saidina Ali terus mengulang-ulang kalimah-kalimah yang diajarkan oleh
Rasulullah.s.a.w. ini. Katanya

"Demi Allah aku tidak pernah meninggalkannya semenjak ia diajarkan
kepadaku."

Sayugia dicadangkan kepada ibu-ibu, suami-suami atau sesiapa sahaja
yang merasai kepenatan setelah melakukan tugas-tugas harian supaya
mengamalkan membaca 'Subhanallah' (33 kali), 'Alhamdulillah' (33 kali)
dan 'Allahuakbar' (33 kali) pada setiap malam iaitu sebelum melelapkan
mata.

Lakukanlah dengan penuh ikhlas dan istiqamah (berterusan). Insya-Allah
petunjuk Nabawi ini mampu menyelesaikan bebanan-bebanan hidup seharian
kita. Akan terserlah ceria di wajah pada keesokan hari dengan senyuman.

"Sebarkanlah ajaranku walau satu ayat pun" (Sabda Rasulullah SAW)

Sampaikanlah dakwah ini kepada keluarga dan saudara-saudara islam yang
lain agar dapat dimanfaatkan bersama dan ikhlaskanlah hati kita dalam
menyampaikan dakwah ini kerana Allah.

Dunia adalah tempat bercucuk tanam dan akhiratlah tempat menuainya.
Tanamlah benih yang baik semasa kita di dunia agar kita dapat
memperolehi hasil yang baik juga di akhirat sana.

Apa ni...

2009-11-30T10:53:00.000+08:00

SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!! I miss him... :'( I miss him so much that it hurts

Something is missing

2009-11-25T14:11:00.000+08:00

I would lay on the floor, unable to move, feeling my heart break. I would cry hysterically, it hurt so bad.

Falling over

2009-11-11T14:00:00.002+08:00

This is just soooo cute!!!

Marriage

2009-11-11T09:48:00.001+08:00

Marriage is such a scary thing for me. There are so much to give in committing into this. I loved a person before… I thought he was the one, he was a sweet charming, caring and loving man. I dreamt of marrying him, having kids, living a happy life as a complete family. But one day, he texted me a simple phrase that changes me. It says ‘maybe we should just be friends’. I became so vulnerable, weak and ‘dead’. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. Few men did try to give me attentions but I chose to ignore them. In my head, their only intention is to break another girl’s heart. Then I began to build up all these defenses around me, like a whole suit of armor, so that nobody can hurt me again. Its pathetic. I know. I don’t see myself going into another relationship. Its just too scary. Some friends said I changed a lot… I used to like talking about men, but now I just don’t look up at them anymore. I can still cheer myself up fantasizing dating Wentworth Miller though…LOL!!! I am bitter. What if one day I married a guy… then suddenly next morning he wake up and say ‘I think we should get a divorce, what do you think? Shall I file a divorce today?’ This thought is haunting me..

2009-11-10T15:48:00.000+08:00

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about taking chances. And how it’s really just about overcoming your fears. Because the truth is, every time you take a big risk in your life, no matter how it ends up, you’re always glad you took it.

How true

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Broken Hearted Girl

2009-11-10T10:43:00.000+08:00

Blink Contest!

2009-11-09T21:59:00.000+08:00

Gymnastic at foreplay

2009-11-09T21:47:00.000+08:00

I laughed at this! Hahaha they're doing some sort of gymnastic at foreplay! hahahaha

CROCS Shop Brunei

2009-11-09T15:49:00.003+08:00

Collapsed

2009-11-09T13:53:00.001+08:00

I almost collapsed at Hua Ho… I mean I didn’t actually collapsed on the floor, just almost… I got to hold on on one of the shelves. I was shaking but I try not to show it because I don’t to feel embarassed. The last time I felt like this was during the National Day. But that time I did collapsed on the ground. I was lucky because all around me were the health professionals like doctors and nurses. They know what to do than panicking. Today I am guessing its because I am losing so much blood. I am having my period and its kinda heavy and I hadn’t anything for breakfast. Once I got back to my car, I immediately grabbed my food, its nothing, just a buttermilk bun, even that I could still feel my hands shaking. I cried too… Why? that’s fore me to keep to myself :’( For now, Alhamdulilah I am feeling better…

Coolies!!!!

2009-11-08T00:16:00.000+08:00

Spring's Gift by Hamza Yusuf

2009-11-06T23:01:00.001+08:00

I envy the sand that met his feet
I’m jealous of honey he tasted sweet
Of birds that hovered above his head
Of spiders who spun their sacred web
To save him from his enemies
I envy clouds formed from the seas
That gave him cover from the heat
Of a sun whose light could not compete
With his, whose face did shine so bright
That all was clear in blinding night
I envy sightless trees that gazed
Upon his form completely dazed
Not knowing if the sun had risen
But felt themselves in unison
With those who prayed, and fasted too
Simply because he told them to
With truth and kindness, charity
From God who gave such clarity
His mercy comes in one He sent
To mold our hearts more heaven bent
I envy all there at his side
Who watched the turning of the tide
As truth prevailed and falsehood fled
And hope restored life to the dead
Men and Women through him found grace
To seek together God’s noble face
I envy the cup that gave him drink
His thoughts that helped us all to think
To be one thought that passed his mind
Inspiring him to act so kind
For me this world is not one jot
If I could simply be a thought
From him to God throughout the ages
As revelation came in stages
I pity all who think it odd
To hear him say there is one God
Or he was sent by God to men
To hone their spirits’ acumen
It’s pride that blinds us from the sight
That helps good men to see his light
He taught us all to be God’s slaves
And he will be the one who saves
Humanity from sinful pride
Muhammad has God on his side
So on this day be blessed and sing
For he was born to grace our Spring
With lilies, flowers, life’s rebirth
In a dome of green like his on earth

Women and Work

2009-11-05T09:03:00.001+08:00

Its all coming back to you...

2009-11-04T16:01:00.001+08:00

I can’t help but remember everything. I mean, you see somebody and you think about all they’ve ever said and done. The good and the bad. It all comes back to you, and it feels so right and hurts so bad all at once...

I am no Sissy

2009-11-04T12:23:00.009+08:00

I am no Sissy... The pictures tell it all...

Its Reality

2009-11-04T11:58:00.003+08:00

Will be going out with the gang tonight. I am so looking forward to meeting them all. Its been quite sometime since we hung out during Raya. I miss them... I am bringin Ifa as well... Ifa is a nice, sweet Malaysian girl I met during the IHP Expo last year. She's A's coursemate when they were in Australia. I bumped into her again in her shop, the CROCS shop in Madang. Since then, we become close.

And I just came back from my 2 days sick leave. How I wish the leave to be longer... I am tired of work. Honestly, I am not happy with my job. It is now up to the SPA whether to allow me to be tranfered or not. All I can do is wait.....

Some of the gang

:(

2009-10-30T21:36:00.004+08:00

Few days ago, I received a text from someone, that person wanted to talk to me, but i refused to. I was busy with work...that person asked to call when I am free cause its important. So today this afternoon, I called this person. I was driving actually on the way to muara to get something from my aunt. This person told me something really shocking. I don't know what to say...I feel bad...I feel like I am bad person now...I feel sad. If only they know the real story... :( Ya Allah ya Tuhanku...please make this easy for me... :(

When cat needs a hug

2009-10-28T22:27:00.000+08:00

Video: When The Cat Needs A Hug Benzer: when, the, cat, needs, hug

Something to share..

2009-10-27T23:17:00.003+08:00

When you meet with that special person the first time, you know nothing about each other. Nothing at all. And despite all the rationality something just happen. You want to spend hours with that person, you want to just listen to what he/she says - even if it would be a big pile of rubbish if it'd come out from somebody else's mouth.

He/she makes you laugh like no others.

You can be the strongest, most confident person in the whole wide World, but you just can't stop those shaky legs, don't seem to be able to put one sensible sentence together - nor stop talking because you are too worried it will get awkward and weird.

At the end of the night of your first date you wish time would stop there and then at that perfect moment - when only the two of you exist in the Universe - would never end. You've just said goodbye 5 minutes ago but you already feel like you have many new stories to tell him/her.You can't sleep because all you can think of how great you felt with that person and you are trying to figure how can it be so easy and smooth.

You get changed several times before the next date because you want to make sure you look your best and he/she just won't be able to take his/her eyes off you.

And then all of a sudden this person becomes part of your every moment in the day.

You are so proud of this person in your life that you want to introduce him/her to everyone from the local postman to you best friends and your family, and this is the person who is the reason why you didn't attend your best friend's wedding.

And then.. You realize that so much time gone past and that person is still there. And you became one very special and unique thing together that you never want to lose. Hopefully it lasts for a while.

But there are times when it comes to an end. And I don't know why. I guess as us, humans constantly growing, developing, making changes and decisions in our lives as individuals; creates the chance to grow apart.

And it hurts. And seems like the end of the World has came. And you suffer. Can't eat or sleep. Want to hate the one, think of every bad and negative you can just remember of but still can't hate him/her.

Then you started to build up that wall of mistrust around your heart...and you don't know if you can love anyone anymore...

As we grow...

2009-10-27T12:43:00.000+08:00

Breakaway...

2009-10-24T20:45:00.005+08:00

Listening to Kelly Clarkson’s Breakaway on repeat…. breakawayyyy… I am loving the song very much. This is my song when I was in the UK. You know how sometimes you just wanna breakdown and quit in the middle of doing the thesis, this song gave me the strength to move on and finish up the whole thing. Alhamdulilah…it is all done. I am glad I made it to the my MSc cause when I was doing my BSc I didn’t really expect that I could go up to that level. Another song was by Ronan Keating *change my song to She Believes now*. This is my bus song. I call it bus song because I listened to the mp3 everyday in the hopper bus all the way to my campus. I just…love the lyrics so very very very much…somehow it brings tears in me now…*tears*

Lyrics | Ronan Keating lyrics - She Believes lyrics

Talking about breaking away earlier, I wanna be away from here, from this country. To a place where I can not think about anything. Going to the UK was the best decision I have ever made. Why? First I get to do my MSc, and second, it helps me to heal. I just wanna be away again, to do PhD, so maybe I can heal again this time. I am not trying to run away from problems. Maybe I am, subconsciously. In reality, I just don’t know. Anyways, apa-apa pun I should be grateful with whatever God has given me, syukur dengan nikmatnya. There are others who are in worse situation than mine. A friend of mine once told me, ‘Allah inda kan bagi tani dugaan if He knows tani inda dapat handle dugaan atu’…lovely… just what I need.

Below are just some of the pictures I took quite sometime ago..Just to freshen the eyes.

Bring more colours in me

2009-10-21T22:30:00.007+08:00

I had just finished watching Prison Break. Im loving the series a lot!. Wentworth Miller is so hot, I think so far he is the hottest man I have ever seen (other than ‘him’). His eyes and lips are just so sexy.. hehehe.. I just want him so badly~~~ LOL…Anyways, today was tiring. Went to the State Medical Store for inspection then came back to the office to do my cold chain break report and just before I started, my colleague insist us to join him to attend the presentation by one of our laboratory suppliers. They finished around 12.10pm and so I have to rush home. It was raining and there was a car accident at the big round-about and I only reached home around 1pm. I don’t usually go home during lunchhour but this time I had to cause I need to find my laptop warranty card. I couldn’t find it and its very frustrating. I didn’t get to eat my lunch and do my prayer…left to work at 1.30pm and arrived around 2pm. At this time I was just so pissed, I feel like I wanted to scream on the top of my lungs..but Alhamdulilah I managed to bersabar..Phewwww. Just before I sit, our clerk called out for me..Mr Bong is here! In my mind was like…’He’s damn early!! Told him to come at 2.30pm’. So I have to go out of the office again to bring him to the Manfacturing Unit in Kiarong. This is regarding the Tamiflu case. Once finished, I went back to the office and stayed until 5.30pm. Was planning to go the gym but I was too tired. Came home, take shower, prayers, dinner and DVDs. Something is wrong with me, everything I ate were all bland..no taste at all. I thought like my whole energy has been drained out…Sigh…My life is just so plain and simple…If anyone is looking for me at the msn, I am sorry, I hardly sign in to my msn anymore... I don't know, it depends on the mood. Facebook? yes still active but also depends on the mood. Twitter? Aaahaaa....once in a week maybe... So what do I do online? well... I read stuffs like news, stories, photography tutorials etc through the stumbling. Oh dear God, please put some colours in my life…but I am still thankful though

Akibat Curang

2009-10-19T16:14:00.004+08:00

This is hilarious!!!!!! LOL!

Today's agenda

2009-10-18T18:31:00.002+08:00

Wake up --> shower --> brunch --> prayer --> Prison Break --> read --> sleep --> prayer --> shower --> prayer --> Prison Break + dinner --> prayer --> sleep

What I am reading:

My First CROCS

2009-10-17T18:37:00.004+08:00

Got my first CROCS Alice.. thats what they call it. Hmm...each CROCS model got its own name and again mine is Alice. Just perfect for the ladies for casual wear. Mine is grey in colour. I wish there are more colour options available in the future. Had a good chit-chat with the two ladies in-charge and turns out one of the ladies is my friend's friend. She looked familiar and not until I reach the office that suddenly the bell rang. We met some time around last year during the Halal Food Expo if Im not mistaken. Small world I can say...

A little bit of promo here. They are selling original CROCS, the shop is at Madang Complex (I found my way eventhough I had no idea where the place was when I first heard it). Kadainya kiut... warna hijau. Should have brought my camera tadi.

Hari Raya 2009

2009-10-17T11:15:00.006+08:00

tiger photos

2009-10-17T10:00:00.001+08:00

tiger photos

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CROCS

2009-10-17T05:10:00.003+08:00

Been wanting to get myself CROCS slipper and sandal... Hahaha I know Im kinda outdated, CROCS has been around for ages *exaggerate* and I think everyone has got it except me *another exaggeration* I have one actually, the keychain! Consider CROCS kah tu? =) Its cute!vI heard there's a new shop in Brunei selling these CROCS stuffs in Madang Complex. Well...honestly I have no idea where that place is...gotta look for it later during lunchtime..insyaAllah...

Dzikir

2009-10-16T20:29:00.005+08:00

I am in my parents' room at the moment with my mum and sisters. Tonight is our turn to host the dzikir, actually its like our monthly activity. Bunch of dad's friends, about 20-30 of them will come over and 'berdzikir'in the 'dark'...its kinda soothing listening to them. Laillahailallah...Subhanallah...Allahuakhbar... Usually the dzikir finishes at 10-10.30pm, then dinner will be served, and then left at around 12 midnight. Haiy...esuk kraja but I am staying up until they're all gone cause I have to give a hand in cleaning the stuffs...I am not complaining...just...kata-kata sikit (hahahaha....). Anyhow, gonna watch Prison Break soon! Hee...Mr. Wentworth is so hawt, dreamt about him last night, sweeet =)

Sighh....He's HOT right?? Please agree with me....

Rain

2009-10-15T23:22:00.003+08:00

Wounds

2009-10-15T16:04:00.000+08:00

What’s worse, new wounds which are so horribly painful or old wounds that should’ve healed years ago and never did? Maybe our old wounds teach us something. They remind us where we’ve been and what we’ve overcome. They teach us lessons about what to avoid in the future. That’s what we like to think. But that’s not the way it is, is it? Some things we just have to learn over and over and over again.

Part of the list

2009-10-15T11:34:00.004+08:00

I just hope that I can get out here as soon as possible... For now, all I can do is pray. Nothing much happening lately. Was busy applying for job transfer to another department during my mandatory leave. At this moment, the letter is still with the Head of HRD at the ministry, hope it will pass to the JPA by today too. People have been asking me why do I want to move, the pay is good already bla bla bla...yag..yag..yag... Hey! I am not happy here ok? Not because of the people, its the thing that I deal with everyday--> pharmaceuticals, of which I have so little knowledge about. And it doesn't match my qualification, which is of very specific to plants. Moreover, I kinda dislike the working environment here, too confined in the office, sitting infront of the laptop (we are not yet provided with pc here) almost the whole working hours. Trust me, for the long 7.5 working hours, I just sit...(except when I have to go the toilet). Some people may prefer just sitting in the well air-conditioned office, but I dont. I have been so used to going out for fieldwork. A balance between fieldwork and office/lab work is okay though. Then again another question come up, why did I apply for it in the first place?, honestly, I was desperate....I wanted to be financially secured and be able to give my parents and sisters money. With a master degree, who would be happy with salary $32.90 per day? After all the hardwork of cramming the brain sampai kan pacah ganya inda? Yeah call me greedy but if they were in my shoes I am sure they would do the same. Haiyyy... gotta stop complaining, mudahan tah jua ada rezeki di sana..Amin ya Rabbal Alamin...

I miss my campus =(

Tilt Shift.... my first try =) whueeeee

2009-10-15T08:24:00.001+08:00

Random shots

2009-10-14T13:16:00.003+08:00

I am grieving..

2009-10-08T19:19:00.002+08:00

I'm grieving and nothing feels easy... Just need to be stronger.. stronger than ever..

Happy Mother's Day

2009-05-09T14:23:00.002+08:00

I know how often I took you for granted
when I was growing up.
I always assumed you'd be there
when I needed you...
and you always were.
But I never really thought about what that meant
till I got older and began to realize
how often your time and energy were devoted to me.
So now, for all the times I didn't say it before,
Thank you, Mom...I love you so very much!

This brought tears in me =(

2009-05-01T22:36:00.000+08:00

Awhh....

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Forgive

2009-04-16T22:31:00.002+08:00

Dear A,

I forgive you...
May Allah bless you
May Allah give me the strength to forget you
Amin ya Rabbal Alamin

''By forgiving and choosing to move on, one takes the power back to morph it into positive energy''

Random

2009-04-16T22:14:00.002+08:00

Looking beyond imperfection. WAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

My Heartbeat

2009-04-15T14:37:00.000+08:00

Give me strength

2009-04-15T09:21:00.003+08:00

I am crying now... crying hard... really hard... It's so painful... It hurts alot... please please please give me strength to go through this...

LIFE

2009-04-08T22:10:00.001+08:00

Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it.
Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
Life is life, fight for it.

I wish

2009-03-31T22:18:00.001+08:00

Sometimes I wish I had never met you. Because then I could go to sleep at night not knowing there was someone like you out there

:)

2009-03-31T22:05:00.001+08:00

You hang on to your pain like it means something, like its worth something… well let me tell you - its not worth shit. Let it go

Get used to it

2009-03-31T22:00:00.002+08:00

No matter how careful you are, there’s going to be the sense you missed something, the collapsed feeling under your skin that you didn’t experience it all. There’s that fallen heart feeling that you rushed right through the moments where you should’ve been paying attention…well, get used to that feeling. That’s how your whole life will feel some day. This is just all practice.

Suggestion for Success

2009-03-28T14:15:00.000+08:00

1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
2. Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent.
3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
6. Be generous.
7. Have a grateful heart.
8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
12. Commit yourself to quality.
13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect.
14. Be loyal.
15. Be honest.
16. Be a self-starter.
17. Be decisive even if it means you’ll sometimes be wrong.
18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
20. Take good care of those you love.
21. Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Mom proud.

By H. Jackson Brown Jr.

Forgiveness

2009-03-27T21:10:00.001+08:00

You forgive me for liking you too much,
And I'll forgive you for not liking me enough.

You forgive me for missing you so,
And I'll forgive you for being so cold.

You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart,
And I'll forgive you for not hearing it.

You forgive me for playing your games,
And I'll forgive you for toying with my emotions.

You forgive me for finding you so attractive,
And I'll forgive you for not noticing.

You forgive me for raising you up so high,
And I'll forgive you for bringing me down so low.

You forgive me for wanting to be with you,
And I'll forgive you for avoiding me.

You forgive me for being so pathetic,
And I'll forgive you for taking advantage of it.

You forgive me for not being able to let go,
And I'll forgive you for never having latched on.

You forgive me for having hopes and dreams,
And I'll forgive you for crushing them.

Forgiveness brings inner peace.

2009-03-24T08:20:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum,
Woke up very very very early today at around 4.30am. Mama said I have to send my babu and family to the airport at around 5.30. I was very pissed coz macam balik-balik mama atu mentext mengingati ngantar babu, tangah-tangah malam pun org di textnya. Urgh….been thinking a lot about him lately, and it makes me even more pissed. Kan melatup ku eh rasanya. Sampai kan berkelayi ku sama mamaku tadi, macam habis ku cakapi tadi inda tantu-tantu, pasal amah lah, pasal bilikku lah, seriously I sounded like I was blaming my mum for all these well in fact ia inda tau apa-apa. I felt bad though lapas atu that and I apologized lah before I left. I left to send them around 6am. Sampai airport kul 6.12, pastu inda lagi tau kan kemana, mun ke ofis luan awal, so I went to HSBC, its payday today. I don’t feel excited about it, antah napa. Macam kan ku pikirkan. And I’m hungry now. Been craving for pasta since last night. Hm… thinking of going to Capers for lunch later, alone….
Anyways, enough said...

Pain

2009-03-20T20:28:00.003+08:00

Pain, you just have to ride it out, hope it goes away on its own, hope the wound that caused it heals. There are no solutions, no easy answers. You just breathe deep and wait for it to subside. Most of the time pain can be managed, but sometimes the pain gets you when you least expect it, hits way below the belt and doesn’t let up. Pain you just have to fight through, because the truth is you can’t outrun it, and life always makes more

Loving the quotes

2009-03-19T21:09:00.001+08:00

''The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than what you settled for. Don’t be afraid to believe that you can have what you want and have what you deserve.”

“Wait for the person who pursues you, the one who will make an ordinary moment seem magical, the kind of person who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person. Wait for the person who will be your best friend, the only person who will drop everything to be with you at any time no matter what the circumstances, for the person who makes you smile like no one else and when they smile you know they need you. Wait for the person who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweat and a t-shirt, but appreciates it when you get dressed up for them. and most of all wait for the person who will put you at the center of their universe, because that’s where you belong.”

Define Happiness

2009-03-18T14:46:00.002+08:00

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much
that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!

When the door of happiness closes, another opens;
But often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one,
Which has been opened for us.

Don’t go for looks; they can deceive.
Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile,
Because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
Find the one that makes your heart smile.

Dream what you want to dream;
Go where you want to go;
Be what you want to be,
Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet
Enough trials to make you strong,
Enough sorrow to keep you human and
Enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don’t necessarily he the best of everything;
They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past;
You can’t go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end,
You’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

I pray for him

2009-03-17T07:55:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum,

I don’t know how I’m feeling now.. . sometimes I think I’m in denial, I think I’m over him but in fact I’m not….yet I mean. Life is unfair, that’s what I think. I don't know...This is just a small matter, there are more big obstacles coming on my way. We don’t always get what we want right?

I started reading this book ‘He’s Not That Into You’ by Greg & Liz. Before I read the book I tend to reason out why he did this to me… maybe he’s busy, maybe he’s stress with work, maybe he just wanted sometime off for a while, so many MAYBES. I waited and waited and waited and hoping and hoping and hoping and hopiinnggg… Hahaha trust me, the pain was unbearable and it is still…. I’m trying to move on now, I’m trying to quit kissing the wounds, I’m trying to….forget him *tears*. I don’t regret the time I spent with him. I appreciate it, every single moment.

Love,
Monne

Leaving the past

2009-03-14T15:58:00.003+08:00

How can you move on if you’re still living in the past? And how can you step forward, leaving the past behind if you can’t even begin to forgive what the past holds? How can you love someone for who they are yet want to hate them for what they’ve done? I guess that what it boils down to is this: there are always those defining moments, times that make us or break us, build us or tear us apart, help us progress further or stop us dead in our tracks. And for whichever way we may choose, there’s a consequence of equal value. It’s a true test of what we stand for, where we came from, and where we are going. These are moments that we live for, breathe for, and fight for. These are the defining moments that leave imprints forever in our hearts, making our souls forever. These are choices that could bring you one step closer to forever or leaving you hostage to the past. I guess in order to move on from the past, you must learn to forgive it. And forgiving may mean letting go

Resetting My Standard

2009-03-12T22:13:00.001+08:00

Resetting my standard. This I will never ever forget or forsake no matter how hot I think he is.

I will not date a man who has just broken up with his ex-girlfriend in less than a year. Why? Because you are just some chick that he place beside him to take somebody’s place, temporarily.

I will not date a man who is afraid to talk about our future, like how many babies etc Hahahaha…

I will not date, under any circumstances, a man who is unable to do multitasking. Because they will surely dump you once they can’t handle things. They will make up reasons just to get rid of you from his life.

I will not be involved in a relationship with a man who would want to introduce me to his FAMILY so soon (you know what I mean, including the grannies, aunties, uncles and cousins). Now that I find it scary after what I have gone through.

I will not date a man who only knows how to talk… talk talk talk.. but no action done.

I will not date a gay man.

I will not date a married man of course.

Letting go

2009-03-12T21:01:00.002+08:00

To let go isn’t to forget, not to think about, or ignore. It doesn’t leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. Letting go isn’t about winning or losing. It’s not about pride and it’s not about how you appear, and it’s not obsessing or dwelling on the past. Letting go isn’t blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness. It’s not about giving in or giving up. Letting go isn’t about loss and it’s not about defeat. To let go is to cherish the memories, but to overcome and move on. It is having an open mind confidence in the future. Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing. To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow. It’s about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving. Letting go is growing up. It is realizing that the heart can sometimes be the most potent remedy. To let go is to open a door, and to clear a path and set yourself free

First post in my third or is it the fourth blog i've created?

2009-03-12T15:49:00.000+08:00

Hi..
Assalamualaikum
This is my first post... Uhm.. Im at work at the moment.. so busy with paperworks. Ani sasak-sasakku rehat dulu yatah membuat blog baru. I deleted my old blog because of some circumstances that cannot be avoided..

Anyways.. I know nobody is reading this. Inda apa, aku tah saja yang membuat and aku jua yang mempost. Nda jua apa kan Monne... HAHAHAHAH macam orang gila. Nauzubillah. :)

Atu tah saja dulu for now.. Cheers
Lots of love,
Monne